The Emotional Scale For Alignment™
No courses, no guesswork, no pressure to ‘fix’ anything; just self-empowerment, using an intuitive framework and step by step calibrating process to stabilize and shift emotions. Less time analyzing and more time feeling confidently in charge.
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What is the emotional scale and how do I use it to manage emotions?
The Emotional Scale is a structured way to measure emotional energy, identify how you feel, and know where to aim for noticeable and sustainable emotional improvement ~ using logic and your own innate senses, you can shift out of heavy feelings, release resistance, find stability, and move towards alignment ~ gently and easily.
Can emotions be measured, or is the scale just subjective?
Each person measures emotional energy by paying attention to how they feel. Emotions, while subjective and nuanced, can be “measured” or described in terms of their felt qualities ~ such as heaviness vs. lightness, tension vs. ease, or resistance vs. flow.
How do I know where I am on the emotional scale?
You can tell where you are on the emotional scale, by the way it feels. Use our interactive Quick Start Emotional Scale below to locate the closest emotion that matches how you’re feeling in this moment ~ and find your starting point on the scale.
With practice, you can identify where you are, define the next emotion, and read your way forward along the emotional scale, feeling the gentle uplift as you go — no overthinking, just “Emotional Alignment Mastery”.
Is it normal to move up and down the scale frequently?
It’s not normal, but it is common, and nothing to be concerned about. This will help you understand what’s happening and what you can do to manage your emotions more effectively.
→ Why do I move up and down the emotional scale multiple times in a day? Moving up and down the scale or slipping back to lower emotions happens when you make an emotion bad or wrong, skip over the emotions in between leaving them uncalibrated, or rush it and don’t find stability before moving forward. You can think of it like climbing a ladder — if you jump too many rungs at once or go too fast, it’s easy to lose your balance and fall back down. And, one rung isn’t better than another, nor are any rungs inappropriate; they all assist the climb.
→ How can I stay at the top of the emotional scale more often? If you aim to enjoy the ride, not just rush to the end of it, you’ll stay in elevated states longer without slipping back, because you’ve learned to honour the process and trust the flow. You’ll also realize that slipping back wasn’t the actual problem, making it wrong and adding resistance to a perfectly natural process was. The greatest thrills don’t come from achieving the “top” of the Emotional Scale, they come from building positive emotional momentum as you move forward.
→ What can I do to build positive emotional momentum? To build momentum, take each step incrementally and give yourself time to stabilize. Every step forward — even if it feels tiny — is a victory worth celebrating. When you acknowledge your progress, it rewires your brain towards experiencing more of those improved feelings. This progression builds up speed that feels stable and true, not erratic or forced. With acceptance and practice, you’ll find it easier to build momentum and stay in your preferred emotional range.
“What can I do to stabilize my emotions?” Emotional calibrating helps you find stability no matter what’s happening, and the more often you practice, the more settled you feel.
What is Emotional Calibration and how can I use it to master my emotions?
Emotional calibration is the art of tuning into your current emotional state, identifying it, stabilizing it, and intentionally shifting toward a place of greater ease, freedom, and alignment. It’s about recognizing where you are on the emotional scale, accepting it without resistance, and gently reaching for the next best-feeling emotion — taking small sustainable steps.
Think of it like fine-tuning a musical instrument: when something feels “off,” you don’t force it into harmony — you accept that it’s “not in tune” and adjust gradually until the resonance sounds just right. Emotional calibration isn’t about faking positivity, pretending you’re in tune when you’re not, or bypassing real feelings; it’s about allowing emotions to move through you naturally, slowing negative momentum, choosing thoughts that feel slightly better, and building positive momentum toward emotional mastery (which is where you feel much more in tune and in charge of your emotional flow).
What Emotional Calibration Is:
✔ Recognizing your current emotional frequency.
✔ Making peace with where you are, here and now.
✔ Identifying the next slightly better-feeling emotion.
✔ Releasing resistance bit by bit.
✔ Taking small steps toward a clearer, uplifted, state of mind.
What Emotional Calibration Isn’t:
✘ Pretending you’re not feeling what you’re feeling.
✘ Forcing yourself to feel better immediately.
✘ Rushing through the process.
✘ Comparing your progress to anyone else’s.
✘ Criticizing yourself for where you are, or how you got here.
Emotional calibration is a skill that strengthens with practice. The more you tune into your emotions and adjust them, the more confident you become that you can handle anything.
Are there practical ways to move up the emotional scale when I’m feeling low?
Yes. Find your starting emotion on the scale and move your way forward from there. The aim is always to feel slightly better, the actual name of the emotion is less important. The goal isn’t to jump from the lowest state to the highest — it isn’t wise and in most cases, that’s not even possible. Instead, recognizing where you are and reaching for the next available step makes the shift feel natural and sustainable.
When you move gradually on the emotional scale, your vibration settles and strengthens at each level, making true emotional alignment feel authentic and effortless, rather than fake or forced. If you’re feeling low and want to feel better the 5 Step Quick Start Emotional Calibration Process below will give you a step by step experience of emotional calibrating, providing a sense of relief quickly — an ideal entry point to get you started. Our free Emotional Calibration Tracker automatically plots your progress so you feel confidently in control.
The Quick Start Emotional Calibration Process
Part of The Complete Emotional Alignment System™
Identify, understand, and move through feelings effectively, naturally and sustainably.
5 Steps to Alignment
Step 1: Pause and Name the Emotion
Take a deep breath, and allow yourself a moment to check in. How are you really feeling right now? Be honest and non-judgmental. Use the Emotional Scale to pinpoint your current emotional set point.
Step 2: Briefly Acknowledge the Cause
Ask yourself, “What got me here?” without going into too much detail. This brief acknowledgment grounds you, makes you focus, defines the topic you're calibrating, and prepares you for movement forward.
Example: “I’m frustrated because the project didn’t go as planned.”
Step 3: Accept Where You Are
Acceptance is key. Feeling an unpleasant emotion doesn’t mean you’re broken — it means something is important to you, and being able to feel that matters. Make peace with where you are. This reduces resistance and provides relief.
Example: “I am where I am, and it’s okay.”
Step 4: Take Small Steps Toward Relief
Instead of jumping from negative to positive, aim for a slight emotional improvement. Take your time and move just one step forward on the scale. Use statements that settle you and feel believable at your current level.
Example: “I don’t need to fix things now—I can just find some relief.”
Step 5: Celebrate and Flow
Emotions are meant to move freely, let them flow rather than clinging, forcing, or pushing them away. Any movement is a win. Acknowledging even the most subtle shifts builds momentum, that leads to sustainable change over time.
Example: “I moved from irritated to hesitant—that feels lighter! YES!”
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Reflect on Your Journey
Take a moment to note how you’re feeling after this calibration. Your reflections are a valid part of your emotional flow.
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My emotions can take a dive quickly, how can I stop it before it gets worse?
Emotional states can shift fast and there are signs when something’s about to happen, even if you’re not fully aware of them yet. Here are some simple yet effective strategies to slow negative momentum and manage emotional spiralling:
→ Catch it early and calibrate. Emotional momentum builds like a wave — small at first, then stronger. If you notice signs of being triggered like a jolt, tension, irritability, or racing thoughts, pause and slow the momentum by taking a few deep breaths, using whatever Quick Emotional Calibration Process works best for you.
→ Slow down and stabilize. Do whatever it take to settle your energy, quieten your mind, and make peace with where you are. Avoid analysing, rationalising, taking major action, or dwelling on what might have happened. Give yourself space to find your equilibrium before taking baby steps towards preferred outcomes and emotions. Taking bigger steps are best when you’re feeling more aligned.
→ Do one thing differently. Changing something physical tends to work well here — your posture, your location, your clothes, which shoe you put on first etc. and send a signal to your brain that you’re taking charge again. If you’ve been avoiding feeling a particular emotion, notice that, and when you’re ready, allow yourself to feel it for a moment to help release the resistance around it.
→ Accept and soften. If the emotion is already surging, trying to fight it may make it worse. Instead, do your best to relax and gently remind yourself. “It’s okay. It will be over soon”. Sometimes, allowing the emotion without judging it (or criticizing yourself for having it), helps reduce the intensity and slows the negative momentum as well.
Interestingly, some people may be drawn into negative emotional momentum out of habit, or because any movement feels better than stagnation — even if it’s backward. When you recover, reflect on what triggered the spiral and calibrate it using the emotional scale. Pay particular attention to the emotional state you ‘started’ with, and ‘finished’ at — calibrating the emotions in between often provides interesting clues — have you decided an emotional expression is wrong or inappropriate? Then plan how you’ll respond differently next time, but don’t over-think it. Keep your go-to tools (like calming phrases, breathing methods, or supportive resources) close at hand so they’re easy to access when you need them most.
The simplicity of emotional calibrating, bypasses complications caused by over-thinking.
Nice to know isn’t it!
Why do incremental shifts work better than big leaps?
Trying to jump from angry to forgiving, or depressed to grateful rarely works — and often backfires. Your emotional system senses the dissonance and resists the shift, and you know that’s it’s happening because you can feel it — it’s noticeably different to pretend to feel better, or be authentically where you are.
By making small, achievable changes, you work with your emotional momentum instead of against it. This leads to sustainable relief and long-term emotional stability. It’s like climbing a staircase: you can’t skip too many steps at once without tripping. But if you take each step intentionally, you’ll reach the top with grace, timing, and ease.
How do I calibrate emotions when I’m under pressure?
Prepare for pressure in advance by compiling your own Emotional Alignment toolkit, and make it accessible wherever you are. You can use our 5 Step Quick Start Emotional Calibration Process above to give you some ideas OR bookmark this page so you can come back and use ours, any time.
Collect resources like Reading Meditations, sayings that settle you, like “I am where I am, and it’s okay”, and playing a Quick Calibrating Game (included in our Calibrating Guide to slow negative momentum and stabilize you faster. An Emotional Tracking System also helps identify triggers, set goals, and acknowledge wins.
What are the benefits of tracking emotional indicators?
Tracking mental health and emotional alignment indicators offers a wide range of benefits that can significantly enhance personal well-being, self-awareness, and overall life satisfaction. By actively monitoring these aspects, individuals can better understand their internal states and make informed decisions to improve their emotional health.
1.Improved Self-Awareness
Tracking emotions and mental health indicators helps you become more aware of your emotional patterns and triggers. This awareness allows you to identify what situations or behaviours lead to forward, stuck, or backward movement on the emotional scale. Understanding these patterns empowers you to make conscious choices that support emotional stability and growth.
2. Greater Sense of Control
Mood tracking provides a sense of control over your feelings, especially during moments of heightened emotion such as stress, spiralling, outbursts, or anxiety. By recognizing how you feel and why, you’re more capable of managing them effectively and knowing exactly what to do in each situation that arises.
3.Early Prediction of Emotional Irregularities
Monitoring emotional indicators helps you detect when you are moving backward on the emotional scale and reminds you to calibrate, rather than using stimulants, suppressants, or the need to speak to others who don’t always understand. Instead of spiralling into depression, anxiety, or burnout, identifying irregularities early allows you to take a timely pause, whether through lifestyle changes, professional help, or emotional regulation practices.
4.Enhanced Emotional Regulation
By regularly observing your emotional movement, you develop a greater understanding of how the ups and downs of life actually benefit you, and begin to navigate them with more confidence and ease. Tools like mood journals or emotional scales help you track progress and reinforce positive shifts in emotional alignment, even if they are small. This practice supports long-term emotional resilience and balance.
5.Supports Personal Growth and Alignment
Emotion tracking is not just about identifying problems—it’s also a tool for personal expansion. Recognizing improvements in emotional understanding and psychological well-being brings with it a sense of hope and encourages continued growth. It reduces dependency on mindset, and increases the freedom that emotional alignment brings, helping you enjoy the journey rather than fixating on an end goal.
6.Better Lifestyle Choices
There is a strong connection between emotional health and lifestyle factors. Monitoring emotional health indicators can reveal how elements like sleep, nutrition, water, breathing, gentle movement, quieting the mind, and sunlight impact emotional well-being. With this insight, you can make adjustments that enhance emotional, mental, physical and spiritual health; we like to call it Unified Well-Being.
7.Improved Communication with Support Systems
When you track the movement of your emotional state, you gain clarity and a deeper understanding of what works best for you, that can be shared with therapists, coaches, or loved ones. This data-based communication leads to more effective support and collaboration on your emotional alignment journey.
8.Increased Optimism and Hope
Studies show that tracking emotional indicators like optimism, self-esteem, and self-management can foster a more hopeful and self-empowered outlook on life. As you begin to feel improvements in emotional alignment, you naturally build confidence in your ability to navigate any challenge and regain inner peace more often.
Whether you’re using just the Emotional Scale or engaging with the calibrating tools, processes and resources in The Complete Emotional Scale Calibration Guide, tracking mental health and emotional indicators is a powerful way to support long-term well-being. It turns abstract feelings into actionable insights, giving you the tools to live a more satisfying, purpose filled, and aligned life.
Emotional Calibrating doesn’t need to be serious — in fact, the more fun you have with it, the easier it is to find alignment, and uplifting effects last even longer.
How is The Emotional Scale for Alignment™ different to other emotional scales?
The Emotional Scale for Alignment™ is an even more structured way to decode and measure emotional energy. It builds upon earlier frameworks like the Abraham-Hicks Emotional Guidance Scale (22 emotions) but expands into a more nuanced, actionable, and logical system with 39 distinct emotional states categorised into 3 essential zones.
Unlike traditional models that label emotions as good or bad, better or worse, high-vibe and low-vibe, this system is non-judgmental and sees all emotions as valuable guidance. Whether you’re feeling happy or resentful, excited or exhausted, every emotion has a purpose and can be used as a springboard to make living your best life more intentional, enjoyable, and meaningful.
We find it more empowering to call this Emotional Alignment, while some people aim for Emotional Mastery. Essentially they serve the same purpose, though emotional alignment feels more like choosing a direction and lining up with it, and emotional mastery sounds more like having dominion. Words matter, so here’s what we mean by emotional mastery.
What is meant by the term Emotional Mastery?
Emotional Mastery is recognizing, regulating, and responding to your emotions in a way that works best for you. It’s not about suppressing or avoiding what you’re feeling, but becoming more aware of your emotions in the moment, then stabilizing and directing them — so that emotions become useful, informative and supportive, rather than dreaded, overwhelming or reactive.
Emotional Mastery means:
✔ You notice what you’re feeling without immediately reacting.
✔ You understand why you’re feeling the way you feel, but don’t get stuck in analysis.
✔ You can stabilize anywhere, by accepting all emotions are valid and useful.
✔ You take your time to enjoy the process, rather than rushing ahead to the ‘end’.
✔ You know how to shift your emotional state intentionally, without faking or forcing.
✔ You use your emotional signals as calibration points — not judgments — to bring yourself back into alignment with who you want to be, and what you want for your life.
Emotional Mastery is not perfection or constant positivity. It’s sustainable self-leadership and increased confidence, by accepting, understanding, and working with your emotions, not against them, as you move through the natural ups and downs of life.
How does using the Emotional Scale help with Emotional Mastery?
Using an emotional scale helps by turning vague, often misunderstood feelings into something you can see, name, calibrate, re-direct, and work with logically. It gives structure to the emotional experience, which is usually messy, fast-moving, and for many people, almost unconscious. Here’s how The Emotional Scale for Alignment™ directly supports emotional mastery:
It Improves Clarity
Most people struggle to articulate what they’re actually feeling. The scale offers distinct emotional states in a sequence, helping someone pinpoint where they are now and where they’d rather be. This clarity alone diffuses confusion and builds self-awareness.
Normalizes the Range of Emotions
The scale shows that no state is inherently “bad” or “wrong” — just more or less aligned with what you want. It reframes emotional movement as natural and navigable rather than as something to resist or avoid. That alone reduces shame and increases agency.
Introduces a Practical Feedback System
By calibrating your current state and observing how small shifts feel (and where they land on the scale), you develop an internal feedback loop. Over time, this builds emotional intelligence — what worked, what didn’t, what brought relief, what created resistance.
Encourages Sustainable Shifts
Rather than trying to leap from despair to joy (and failing), the scale helps you move one state at a time — making change feel realistic. This builds trust in the process and in your own capacity to self-regulate.
Reduces Reactivity
When you use the scale regularly, you become quicker at noticing early signs of misalignment. That shortens the gap between trigger and response, which is the essence of emotional mastery: awareness first, then conscious choice.
Supports Emotional Agility
The scale doesn’t just help you “feel better” — it helps you pivot flexibly. That means if life throws something unexpected (as it will), you’re more practiced at calibrating without spiralling.
Makes the Invisible Tangible
Emotions are energy, but the scale makes that energy visible and trackable. It becomes a kind of internal compass, so you’re not just “coping” — you’re navigating, learning, and aligning.
Introducing the Compete Emotional Scale Calibration Guide
Part of The Complete Emotional Alignment System™
Find emotional relief, stability and alignment — intuitively, easily, sustainably — and feel like your empowered, authentic self again.
The Compete Emotional Scale Calibration Guide is the first to reveal the fully expanded version of The Emotional Scale for Alignment™ — 39 emotional states laid out in a practical framework, showing how to move step-by-step to what feels better. No forcing. No trying to “fix” anything Just a smarter way to find stability and relief, and align with what you want for your life. Discover how every emotion, even the ones that suck, serve a purpose, and learn how to relax and properly enjoy life’s natural ups and downs along the way.
FEEL BETTER — NO Struggle, NO Therapy, NO Overthinking. Finally, a Framework That Doesn’t Ask You to Fix Yourself.
Understand why you feel the way you feel and how to move forward on the Emotional Scale — naturally, gently, sustainably. Whether you’re going through contrast, coping with anxiety, managing stress, or want to be in your creative flow more often, this guide gives you 59 pages with everything you need for your own emotional alignment toolkit.
Including practical quick transition techniques, calibration exercises, and easy-to-follow emotional flow examples. Use it anytime, anywhere, and feel the difference in real time. Delivered as a high quality print ready PDF, compatible with all devices, and optimized for comfortable reading in Adobe Acrobat’s Liquid Mode.
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Frequently Asked Questions
It doesn’t promise transformation, or have you aiming for a final destination, instead it promotes enjoying the journey (so you enjoy your life more, no matter what’s going on) and seeing emotions as guides, not judgements.
The Scale works by identifying 39 emotional states (the Quick Start Emotional Scale on the website has 18), providing the foundation that plots how you feel right now, and where you can go next for noticeable and sustainable emotional improvement.
No complicated theories. No emotional overthinking. Just a simple tool you can use anytime, anywhere. And it works.
That being said, we intentionally use the terminology “emotional calibration” and “alignment” because they are both intuitive and deeply meaningful, especially when framed in a way that parallels physical concepts like weight, pressure, ease, and precision. Emotions, while subjective and nuanced, can indeed be “measured” or described in terms of their felt qualities—such as heaviness vs. lightness, tension vs. ease, or resistance vs. flow.
Why This Terminology Works as a Measurement:
1. Calibration in Emotions:
Just as physical tools require calibration to ensure accuracy and consistency, emotional calibration involves adjusting our internal “sensors” (awareness, perception, and responses) to better align with our desired emotional states. This process might involve recognizing patterns of thought or behaviour that trigger emotional “misalignment,” such as feelings of heaviness or unease, and then fine-tuning our thoughts, words, or actions to restore balance.
2. Alignment in Emotions:
Emotional alignment refers to the harmonious relationship between our inner state and our external actions, goals, or values. It’s akin to ensuring that all parts of a machine are working together smoothly. When we feel emotionally aligned, there’s a sense of flow, purpose, well-being, and congruence. Misalignment, on the other hand, often feels like resistance, friction, dis-ease, or being “out of sync.”
3. Metaphors of Weight and Pressure:
Using terms like weight/lightness and pressure/ease provides a tangible way to measure abstract emotional experiences. For example:
• Heaviness might correspond to feelings of burden, stress, or sadness.
• Lightness could represent joy, freedom, or relief.
• Pressure might reflect anxiety, urgency, or overwhelm.
• Ease could signify calmness, relaxation, or confidence.
These metaphors allow people to connect with their emotions in a more logical way, making it easier to identify, articulate, and work with them.
4. Other Examples of Emotional Calibration and Alignment in Practice:
Imagine someone feeling overwhelmed by work deadlines (a heavy, pressured state). They might:
• Calibrate by pausing to assess their priorities and breaking tasks into manageable steps.
• Align by reconnecting with their deeper purpose or values, reminding themselves why they’re doing the work.
• Shift from pressure to ease by practicing deep breathing or taking short breaks to reset their emotional state.
Over time, this process becomes second nature—a kind of “emotional muscle memory”—where they learn to quickly recalibrate and realign whenever they feel off-balance.
The choice of terminology—calibration and alignment —is not only appropriate but also powerful. It bridges the gap between the physical and emotional worlds, offering a framework that is both precise and accessible. By describing emotions in terms of weight, pressure, ease, and flow, we give people practical language to understand and navigate their inner experiences. This approach honours the complexity of emotions while providing a clear path toward greater clarity, balance, and well-being.
The Emotional Scale is the perfect framework to make the calibration process clearer, and more intentional. At the end of the day, the ultimate measure of success is how you feel—because when you feel better, everything else falls into place.
The Emotional Scale for Alignment™ is the full system with 39 emotional states, offering greater depth and nuance. This expanded version increases the likelihood of making sustainable vibrational shifts—especially for those who feel stuck, drained, or disconnected, or where traditional mental health approaches haven’t quite worked.
Both are effective, but the full scale and The Complete Emotional Scale Calibration Guide provides a more detailed map for emotional mastery.
Neutral States (Mid Vibe): Neutral/Passive States act as stabilizing points on the scale; places to rest, recalibrate, and settle before moving forward. These emotions aren’t flashy or intense, but they play a crucial role in emotional regulation.
Contractive States (Low Vibe): Contractive States contain emotions that make you feel small, isolated, alone, empty, or disconnected. When you’re in these states, life may seem overwhelming, unfair, depressing, or meaningless.
1. Foundation: Core Principles of Being
These set the tone for how individuals approach themselves and their journey.
- Being over Doing: Valuing presence over constant action.
- Self-fullness over Mindfulness: Embracing your whole self rather than just observing it.
- Authenticity over Positivity: Honouring real feelings over faking a happy face.
- Inner Guidance over Outer Assumptions: Trusting your intuition over external opinions or expectations.
- Your Way over The Right Way: Honouring individual paths over society expectations.
- Embracing Flow over Transformation: Welcoming the natural current of energy over aiming for a static goal.
2. Emotional Flow: Working with Feelings
These emphasize the emotional core of the philosophy, prioritizing feelings as the guide.
- Emotional Well-Being over Mental Health: Focusing on how you feel rather than clinical labels or cognitive fixes.
- Flowing Emotions over Fixing Mindsets: Gently adjusting feelings, rather than forcing cognitive overhaul.
- Feeling Forward over Looking Back: Tuning into present emotions to guide the next step, rather than dwelling on past feelings.
- Calibrating over Motivating: Fine-tuning emotions rather than pushing with pep talks.
- Allowing over Resisting: Letting emotions and experiences flow rather than fighting them.
3. Ease & Alignment: How to Move Forward
These focus on the “how”—gentle, aligned approaches to growth and action.
- Alignment over Progress: Prioritizing inner harmony over relentless forward motion.
- Focus over Force: Directing attention intentionally rather than muscling through.
- Opening to Solutions over Tackling Problems: Seeking possibilities rather than battling challenges.
- Aligned Action over Forced Effort: Acting from a place of flow rather than struggle.
- Working With over Pushing Against: Collaborating with your current state rather than battling it.
- Small Steps over Giant Leaps: Valuing gradual shifts over dramatic, unsustainable jumps.
- Simplicity over Complexity: Choosing a clear, uncomplicated path over tangled overthinking or elaborate fixes.
4. Strengths & Joy: Building on What Works
These shift the lens toward positivity and capability, without forcing it.
- Having Fun over Chasing Success: Prioritizing enjoyment in the process over obsessing about outcomes or metrics.
- Highlighting Strengths over Overcoming Weaknesses: Building on what’s already working rather than fixating on flaws.
- Choosing Joy over Facing Fears: Turning toward what lights you up rather than what scares you.
- Playfulness over Seriousness: Approaching growth with lightness instead of heaviness.
- Embracing the Next Step over Dwelling on the Past: Focusing on what’s ahead rather than what’s behind.
5. Flexibility & Trust: Releasing Control
These encourage letting go of rigidity and trusting the process.
- Accepting over Judging: Embracing what is, without declaring it to be good or bad.
- Preferences over Rules: Choosing what feels right for you over rigid prescriptions.
- Curiosity over Certainty: Exploring possibilities rather than needing fixed answers.
- Letting Go over Holding On: Releasing rather than clinging.
6. Timing & Flow: The Rhythm of Life
These address pace and patience, aligning with a natural unfolding.
- Relaxing Forward over Rushing Ahead: Moving with calm intention rather than frantic haste.
- All In Good Time over Fear Of Missing Out: Patience over panic about timing.
- Universal Timing over Urgency: Trusting life’s rhythm over rushing to control it.
7. Unified Vision: The Bigger Picture
These tie it all together with a cohesive, integrative perspective.
- Unified Well-Being over Holistic Health: Integrating all aspects of self into a cohesive state, beyond just balancing parts.
8. Outreach: How We Share This Work
This applies the philosophy to external engagement (e.g., marketing).
- Attraction over Promotion: Drawing in magnetically, rather than pushing out forcefully.
Philosophical Quote
“The simplicity of emotional calibrating bypasses complications caused by over-thinking. Nice to know isn’t it!”
Think of it like fine-tuning a musical instrument: when something feels “off,” you don’t force it into harmony—you adjust gradually until the resonance feels just right. Similarly, calibration isn’t about faking positivity or bypassing real feelings. It’s about allowing emotions to move through you naturally, choosing thoughts that feel slightly better, and building momentum toward emotional mastery.
What Calibration Is:
✔ Recognizing your current emotional frequency.
✔ Making peace with where you are—right here, right now.
✔ Identifying the next slightly better-feeling thought or emotion.
✔ Taking baby steps toward a clearer, lighter state of mind.
✔ Releasing resistance bit by bit.
What Calibration Isn’t:
✘ Pretending you’re not feeling what you’re feeling.
✘ Forcing yourself to feel better immediately.
✘ Rushing through the process.
✘ Comparing your progress to anyone else’s.
✘ Judging or criticizing yourself for where you are or how you got here.
Emotional calibration is a skill—one that strengthens with practice. The more you tune into your emotions and adjust with self-compassion, the easier it becomes to move toward joy, confidence, and alignment.
When you move gradually on the emotional scale, your vibration settles and strengthens at each level, making true emotional alignment feel authentic and effortless, rather than fake or forced. If you’re feeling low and want to feel better the 5 Step Quick Start Emotional Calibration Process below will give you a step by step experience of emotional calibrating, providing a sense of relief quickly — and an ideal entry point to get you started.
When you move gradually, your vibration settles and strengthens at each level, making true emotional alignment feel effortless rather than like a forced or fake attempt at spiritual ascension. Taking small, achievable steps works with your emotional momentum instead of against it, leading to sustainable relief and long-term stability. It’s like climbing a staircase one step at a time rather than trying to skip multiple steps and risking a fall.
Stepping incrementally along the scale is more effective, sustainable, and natural. The ultimate aim is to move forward and land in your preferred emotional states as often as you can.
But let’s add this important distinction, any movement is a win—the greatest thrills come from momentum, not achievement!!! From enjoying every moment of the ride, not from getting to the end of it!!!
Identifying the emotion is all you need to start calibrating and feeling better. You might think you have to find the cause of your problem and fix it, but that’s not necessary. Instead, just focus on calibrating how you feel about it.
You might also believe you need to work on changing your mindset, but again, there’s no need. Simply recalibrate the emotion around the issue, and watch how everything shifts naturally.
Over time, you’ll forget what the problem even was because your focus will have moved far beyond the construct that caused it in the first place. Feeling better is what you really want, and this shortcut makes it easier on yourself—and everyone else.
Emotional calibration bypasses all the complications caused by overthinking, processing, and analysing. Aligning your emotions is so much simpler than trying to break patterns, remove negative thoughts, or change your mindset. And when you think about it logically, it just makes more sense.
The same is true with emotional calibration. To build momentum, take each step incrementally and give yourself time to stabilize at each level. With practice, you’ll find it easier to stay in elevated states longer.
But here’s an important insight: any movement is a win. The greatest thrills don’t come from achieving the “top” of the Emotional Scale—they come from the momentum of moving forward. It’s about enjoying the ride, not just getting to the end of it. Each small step upward—even if it feels tiny—is a victory worth celebrating.
With practice, you’ll find it easier to stay in your preferred emotions without slipping back, because you’ve learned to honour the process and trust the flow. You’ll also realize that slipping back wasn’t the actual problem—making it wrong and adding resistance to the process was.
1. Energy Follows Attention: Where we focus our attention determines our vibration. Focusing on struggle keeps us stuck; focusing on progress opens the door to solutions.
2. Resistance Creates Stagnation: Fighting against emotions or circumstances amplifies their intensity. Allowing them to be—and gently guiding ourselves forward—creates momentum.
3. Alignment Feels Effortless: When we raise our vibration, we naturally attract conditions, thoughts, and experiences that reflect our new state. Healing becomes a by-product of alignment, not a battle to be won.
1. Change How You Feel, Even When You Can’t Change the Situation
Many external factors are beyond our control, but we always have agency over how we respond energetically. For example: Someone living in poverty might not be able to change their financial situation overnight—but they can choose thoughts that reduce resistance and create emotional space for new possibilities. A person experiencing systemic injustice might still feel anger or frustration, but shifting slightly toward acceptance or hope can help them stay grounded and resilient.
2. The Magic of Feeling-Based Shifts
Changing deeply ingrained beliefs can feel overwhelming—but changing how you feel in the moment is often much easier. This is where tools like Step 5: Reach for Relief come into play. Ask yourself simple, leading questions that guide your energy toward alignment:
Would I rather make peace with this or keep telling a story about it?
Would I rather expand from this or contract because of it?
Would I rather think the universe is with me or against me?
If even these questions feel too complex, simplify further:
Would I rather expand or contract?
Would I rather love or hate?
Would I rather be happy or sad?
Would I rather be calm or agitated?
These questions work because they bypass intellectual analysis and tap into visceral knowing. They remind us of what we already know to be deeply true about life, and how we prefer to feel.
3. Empowerment Without Denial
Aligning emotionally doesn’t mean ignoring injustice or pretending everything is fine. On the contrary, it equips individuals to face systemic challenges from a place of clarity, resilience, and empowerment. For example: An activist working to dismantle inequality will be more effective if they’re operating from a state of hope and determination rather than despair or resentment. A community leader addressing poverty can inspire others more powerfully when they radiate optimism and possibility.
4. Small Shifts Create Ripple Effects
Emotional alignment has a ripple effect—it influences not only the individual but also their relationships, communities, and even larger systems. When one person shifts their energy, it creates space for others to do the same. Collective change begins with individual transformation.
Mental health gets therapy.
Physical health gets exercise and nutrition.
Emotional health is grossly misunderstood.
Spiritual health is often relegated to religion or esoteric practices.
But what if true well-being isn’t about addressing each part in isolation? What if everything—your thoughts, emotions, physical sensations, and spiritual connection—is energy? When you raise your vibration across all these dimensions, you create a ripple effect that is felt in every area of your life.
Emotions Are the Missing Link
At this stage of human evolution (2025), the most effective way to raise vibration is through practices like meditation, which slows thought and quiets the mind. However, the quickest way is to use emotions to feel your way there.
Empowerment Through Practice
The more you practice calibrating the Emotional Scale, the better you get at it—and the more confident you become in navigating life’s challenges without being derailed by them. Analogy: Think of it like learning to ride a bike. At first, you wobble and fall. But with practice, you gain balance, speed, and confidence. Eventually, riding becomes second nature. Encouragement: Whether you use the Emotional Scale once or regularly, it’s entirely up to you. There’s no pressure to “get it right”—just trust the process and let it guide you.
Revolutionary Approach Rooted in Simplicity
Framing this work as revolutionary doesn’t mean it guarantees perfection—it means it offers a radically simple yet profoundly effective way to calibrate your energy. By focusing on emotions as the foundation of alignment, we’re bridging gaps that have long been overlooked in traditional approaches to well-being.
Additional Supporting Points
A. Bridging Immediate Relief and Long-Term Growth
Highlighting the dual impact of the Emotional Scale: “Immediate relief helps you regain footing in the moment, while consistent practice builds resilience over time. Both are valuable—and both contribute to Unified Well-Being.”
B. Practical Tips for Managing Expectations
Actionable advice for readers who worry about unrealistic outcomes: “If you’re concerned about being disappointed that working with the scale hasn’t produced the results you wanted, remind yourself that the Emotional Scale isn’t about fixing everything at once. It’s about creating moments of alignment that add up to meaningful change.” “Focus on how you feel in the moment—not on some imagined endpoint. Each step upward is progress, regardless of how small it seems.”
C. Redefining Success Beyond Perfection
Challenging societal norms around transformation and success: “True success isn’t about achieving a perfect state—it’s about becoming skilled at returning to alignment whenever life pulls you out of it. The Emotional Scale empowers you to do just that.”
ANSWER: Engaging with the scale in a way that using the cognitive mind is not required, in fact almost discouraged. Once you’ve identified where you are on the scale and stated why, the progression is obvious. One can simply read the words upwards and feel a transition. Try it for yourself. Similarly you can read the words heading down the scale and also feel the transition. We produce simple reading meditations that are emotionally calibrating, people can just scan the words on these meditations and feel better. Using visual senses are not the only way ‘engaging’ with the scale can be effective, it’s just the place we started because it makes the most sense as a large part of the worlds population engage visually on devices every day.
Using the Emotional Scale doesn’t require significant cognitive effort or physical energy—making it accessible even for those facing physiological challenges. Here’s how:
1. Minimal Cognitive Load: The process is designed to bypass overthinking. Once you’ve identified where you are on the scale (which can be as simple as noticing how you feel), progression is intuitive. You don’t need to analyze or problem-solve—just read the words upward and allow your energy to shift naturally. Example : If you’re feeling frustrated, simply scanning the words “hopeful,” “optimistic,” or “grateful” can create an immediate sense of relief.
2. Sensory-Based Engagement: Visual engagement is just one way to interact with the scale. For individuals who may struggle with traditional practices like journaling or meditation, we’ve developed tools like Simple Reading Meditations that leverage the power of sight (and eventually other senses) to recalibrate emotions effortlessly. Proof: A recent Facebook post featuring, RE-ASSURANCE: Let It All Be Okay received overwhelming feedback from readers who reported feeling better simply by scanning the words. This demonstrates how effective sensory-based engagement can be, even for those with limited bandwidth.
3. Beyond Visual Tools: While visual tools are our specialty, we’re exploring additional ways to engage with the scale that cater to diverse needs: Auditory Tools : Listening to guided meditations or affirmations based on the scale. Kinesthetic Tools : Gentle movements or touch-based practices (e.g., tapping or placing hands on the heart while repeating key phrases). Multisensory Approaches : Combining visuals, sounds, and movement to create immersive experiences.
4. Small Steps, Big Impact: Even in states of chronic pain, fatigue, or sleep deprivation, small shifts in emotional energy can make a significant difference. For example: Someone with chronic pain might not leap from frustration to joy—but they can move from frustration to acceptance, which reduces resistance and creates space for healing. Similarly, someone experiencing hormonal imbalances might find relief by focusing on neutral states like patience or calmness, which help stabilize their nervous system.
5. Proven Accessibility: The simplicity of the Emotional Scale ensures it’s adaptable to various contexts. Whether you’re scrolling through your phone, lying in bed, or taking a moment during a busy day, the scale meets you where you are. Its effectiveness lies in its ability to create subtle yet profound shifts without requiring significant effort.
1. Align First, Then Act: Calibrate your emotional energy until you feel inspired to take action. This ensures that your actions are aligned with your highest potential and flow effortlessly. Example: If you’re feeling frustrated about starting a project, move up the scale to hope or enthusiasm first. From there, stepping into action feels natural and energizing.
2. Act First, Then Align: Jump into action and use the Emotional Scale to calibrate as you go. This approach works well for those who prefer learning through experience. Example: You might start exercising even if you don’t feel motivated at first, then use the scale to shift from resistance to enjoyment during the process.
Neither path is inherently “better”— it’s about what feels right for you in the moment.
Inspired Action vs. Forced Action
The Emotional Scale emphasizes inspired action, which arises naturally when your energy is aligned. This contrasts with forced action, which often leads to burnout, frustration, or resistance. When you act from alignment, you’re more likely to sustain momentum and achieve meaningful results.
An Emotional Scale, Not an Action Scale
This framework focuses on emotions because they are the foundation of all action. Without emotional alignment, even the best-laid plans can falter. While the Emotional Scale doesn’t prescribe specific actions, it creates the energetic conditions necessary for inspired movement. Think of it as preparing the soil before planting seeds — alignment sets the stage for growth.
Personal Autonomy in Application
Ultimately, how you integrate awareness and action is entirely up to you. The Emotional Scale provides guidance, but it doesn’t impose rules. Do what feels right for you, whether that means aligning first or acting first. Trust your intuition — it knows the way.
Avoiding the Trap of Endless Observation
Some people might worry about getting “stuck” in observation, endlessly analysing their emotions without taking steps forward. The Emotional Scale prevents this by encouraging incremental progress: Each small shift forward creates momentum, making it easier to transition from awareness to action. Additionally, the 8-Step Calibration Process provides clear steps to guide you through alignment without overthinking.
The Emotional Scale for Alignment™ isn’t designed to cater to every perspective—it’s designed to guide those who are ready, willing, and able to explore new ways of being. If someone perceives terms like “energy” or “vibration” as abstract or unscientific, that’s okay. Their current emotional state may simply not align with openness to these ideas—yet.
2. Where You Are on the Scale Determines What You Can See.
Consider the Emotional Scale itself: Someone operating predominantly from contractive states is less likely to resonate with expansive concepts like energy or alignment. These states often involve resistance, skepticism, or a focus on problems rather than possibilities. However, when emotions shift upward—even temporarily—the mind naturally becomes more open-minded and receptive. This means that even skeptics aren’t permanently closed off—they just need to be in a different emotional state to engage with these ideas.
3. Emotions Lead, Mind Follows.
For years, traditional approaches have tried to change beliefs first, hoping emotions would follow. But we’ve flipped that model: when emotions expand, the mind naturally opens up. There’s no need to force understanding or convince skeptics. Instead, we gently call them to meet us by creating tools and resources that resonate with their emotional readiness.
4. The Cost of Dilution.
Many frameworks buckle under the pressure to appeal to the masses, watering down their message to avoid criticism. We choose a different path: staying true to the simplicity and depth of the Emotional Scale, trusting that those who are ready will find their way to it.
5. A Gentle Invitation, No Need For a Hard Sell.
Rather than bending to skepticism, we extend a gentle invitation: “If you’re curious, come explore. If you’re not, that’s okay too.” The Emotional Scale meets people where they are—but it doesn’t compromise its essence to do so.
Additional Supporting Points
A. Bridging Science and Spirituality
While the Emotional Scale doesn’t pander to skepticism, it can still acknowledge scientific parallels:
“Concepts like ‘energy’ and ‘vibration’ align with principles in physics, neurobiology, and psychology. For example, emotions influence brainwave patterns, heart rate variability, and even cellular function. Whether you call it ‘energy’ or ‘biochemical signalling,’ the impact is real.”
B. Trusting the Process
Alignment isn’t about convincing others—it’s about trusting yourself: “When someone is ready, they’ll find their way to this work. Until then, we honour their journey without judgment or pressure.”
C. Addressing Criticism Compassionately
It’s understandable to feel skeptical about unfamiliar concepts. Yet, thousands of people have experienced profound shifts using the Emotional Scale—not because they were convinced intellectually, but because they felt the results emotionally.”
Final Thoughts
By standing firm in our commitment to authenticity, we’re ensuring that the Emotional Scale remains a beacon of clarity and empowerment for those who are ready to embrace it. At the same time, we extend a compassionate invitation to skeptics, recognizing that their openness may simply require a shift in emotional state.
If you’ve heard of the Emotional Scale, you’ve also seen what it looks like. With 39 emotional states (18 in our Quick Start Emotional Scale), arranged in order of vibrational frequency, anyone can look at the scale and understand what to do. There’s no need for advanced knowledge, expensive tools, or specialized training. Example: If someone feels frustrated, they can glance at the scale and see that moving toward acceptance or hope feels better. It’s not rocket science—it’s human chemistry.
2. No Additional Resources Required
While we offer supplementary materials (e.g., meditations, guides, exercises), these aren’t necessary to benefit from the Emotional Scale. They exist because people ask for them, not because they’re essential. The framework stands on its own, requiring nothing more than awareness and willingness to feel your way forward.
3. Bridging the Gap Between Mind and Emotion
Society has swung heavily toward mind-focused solutions—mindfulness, mindset shifts, cognitive reframing—but true empowerment comes from aligning emotions first. All humans have emotions; all humans can feel their way forward. This makes the Emotional Scale universally applicable, regardless of background or privilege.
4. Thriving Without the Framework
Importantly, no one needs the Emotional Scale to live a magnificent life. Emotions have been part of human chemistry since the dawn of time. What we’ve done is simply provide a logical structure to make emotional alignment easier to navigate for those who want guidance. But even without the scale, anyone can thrive by tuning into their feelings and choosing thoughts that feel better.
5. Challenging the Myth of Complexity = Value
Many people believe that value must come from complexity or cost—that if something is simple or free, it can’t be impactful. We challenge that myth head-on. The Emotional Scale proves that profound change doesn’t require elaborate systems or financial investment—it requires only a shift in focus and energy.
6. Meeting People Where They Are
For those who lack access to traditional self-development resources, the Emotional Scale offers an equalizer. It’s available to anyone with basic awareness of their emotions, making it accessible across socioeconomic, cultural, and educational divides. Whether someone discovers it online, through word-of-mouth, or simply by observing their own emotional patterns, the framework meets them wherever they are.
A. Real-Life Accessibility
Examples of how the Emotional Scale transcends barriers: “A farmer in a remote village might not have access to therapy or mindfulness apps, but they can still use the Emotional Scale to navigate frustration after a bad harvest.” “A single parent juggling multiple jobs might not have time for lengthy self-help programs, but they can glance at the scale during a break and find relief.”
B. Addressing Systemic Challenges
While we recognize that structural issues like poverty and inequality require collective action, the Emotional Scale empowers individuals to take ownership of their emotional well-being within those systems.
C. Reframing Privilege
Emotional alignment isn’t tied to privilege—it’s tied to choice: “Privilege may influence access to certain tools, but emotional alignment is always available to anyone willing to engage with their feelings. The Emotional Scale simply makes that process clearer and more intentional.”
Final Thoughts
By emphasizing the simplicity, universality, and independence of the Emotional Scale, we’re addressing concerns about inclusivity while staying true to the framework’s essence. It’s not about catering to privilege—it’s about democratizing access to emotional empowerment.
The Emotional Scale for Alignment™ is a framework, a method, a process, and a system. It IS NOT a universal truth!
While it’s protected by copyright and trademark, it’s also inherently designed to evolve. Just as the original formats of the Emotional Scale have expanded and transformed significantly over the past 40 years, so too should this iteration continue to adapt and grow.
People often get caught up in the idea that something must be eternally applicable to hold value—like clinging to ancient texts such as the Bible. While those texts were relevant in their time and context, some individuals remain stuck in the past, turning them into rigid dogma. Times and conditions have changed dramatically since then—and they’re changing faster than ever now. At the pace technology is advancing, even within 12 months, we may need to evolve alongside those changes.
This isn’t about creating something perfect or permanent—it’s about offering a tool that works right now for those who resonate with it. And when the moment comes for further evolution, the Emotional Scale will naturally adapt to meet new needs, just as it always has.
Additional Supporting Points
A. Universality of Vibration vs. Cultural Expression
While cultural differences influence how emotions are labelled or expressed, the vibrational frequency of emotions transcends language and tradition. For example: Joy feels expansive whether experienced in Tokyo, Nairobi, or New York. Frustration contracts energy regardless of cultural context. The Emotional Scale focuses on these universal frequencies rather than culturally specific interpretations, ensuring its adaptability.
B. Flexibility in Translation and Application
Translations may require adjustments to honour cultural nuances: Example: In some cultures, “hope” might carry connotations of passivity, while in others, it signifies active optimism. Adapting word choices ensures the framework resonates locally without losing its essence.
C. Rejecting Dogma in Favour of Evolution
“Dogma stifles growth. The Emotional Scale isn’t meant to be carved in stone—it’s meant to serve as a living, breathing guide that evolves alongside humanity.” – Elizabeth Richardson (Author and Founder)
D. The Emotional Scale is Designed for Individual Interpretation
We encourage you to interpret the scale through your own lens. There is no “one right way” to engage with it—its power lies in its flexibility. Whether you’re adapting it to fit your cultural context, personal experiences, or unique emotional landscape, the Emotional Scale is designed to adapt to where you are. Clarification: This framework doesn’t dictate how you should feel or act—it invites you to explore what resonates most deeply with you. Empowerment: Trust your intuition. If a particular word or concept doesn’t align with your experience, reinterpret it in a way that does. The Emotional Scale is a guide, not a rulebook.
Final Thoughts
By emphasizing the Emotional Scale’s adaptability and rejecting the notion of permanence, we’re positioning it as a dynamic, evolving tool rather than a rigid doctrine. This approach honours cultural differences while staying grounded in the universality of emotional vibration. By honouring individual interpretation, the Emotional Scale becomes a truly universal tool—one that transcends cultural boundaries while still remaining deeply personal.
The Emotional Scale Is Not Magic
If someone expects instant, permanent transformation after one use of the Emotional Scale, they may indeed feel discouraged or disappointed when life doesn’t change overnight. However, that’s not the purpose of the process. Like meditation, the Emotional Scale provides rapid relief in the moment, along with residual benefits that accumulate over time—if used consistently.
Start with Intention
Everything begins with intention. If you approach meditation expecting it to heal your body or manifest wealth, you’ll likely be disappointed because that’s not its purpose. Similarly, the Emotional Scale isn’t designed to “fix” your life—it’s designed to help you calibrate your emotions so you can navigate challenges with greater understanding and even playfulness.
Clarification: The purpose of meditation is to quiet the mind and slow thought—period. Its far-reaching effects come from consistent practice. Similarly: The purpose of the Emotional Scale is to understand, calibrate, and align your emotions—period. Its power lies in repeated application, not one-time use.
Transformation Happens in Moments
True transformation isn’t a single event—it’s a series of moments where you consciously choose alignment. Each time you use the Emotional Scale, you create a ripple effect that impacts other areas of your life. Over time, these small shifts add up to profound changes. Example: Imagine feeling overwhelmed by stress. Using the scale to move from frustration to calmness creates immediate relief—and equips you to handle future stress more effectively.
On the other hand, this method might not be for you, if you thrive on taken action, love setting goals, and already have a system for staying emotionally aligned. Similarly, if you’re the type of person who needs constant mental challenges to grow, or if gentle alignment and soothing techniques don’t resonate, this won’t suit your style.
But for those who want an easier way to calibrate their emotions, track their triggers and what helps them move forward quickly again, The Complete Emotional Alignment System™ is the breath of fresh air you’ve been looking for.
While many people have taken the original emotional scale and popularised it as a manifesting tool (and made money from it’s use or misuse), the only aspect we claim is its effectiveness for rapid emotional shifts. We don’t say you can heal your body by using it for instance, (though science does seem to support that theory). We don’t even say it’s transformative or that it does create lasting change—we can’t impose our will over someone else’s. Life doesn’t work like that.
Test the framework for yourself by using the scale during a challenging moment and noticing how you feel afterwards. Transformation (if we must use that word) comes in a series of moments where you consciously choose alignment. The purpose of the Emotional Scale is to understand, calibrate, and align your emotions. Its power lies in repeated application, not one-time use.
The power of the Emotional Scale is that it helps people feel better in the here and now, and the here and now is exactly where it’s most needed.
That said, you don’t need to deliberately move backward just to feel the thrill of jumping forward. Incrementally moving upward from wherever you are can become a lifelong journey of continued expansion—a process that feels natural and fulfilling.
To fill in the gaps and refine the scale, I immersed myself in the experience of each emotion, almost like an actor might do. Over time, I identified emotions that weren’t fully defined in the original scale. For instance, 13. Engaged Interest which now sits at the bottom of the expansive states, felt more expanded than 14. Hopeful / Optimistic / Grateful, yet not quite as light as 12. Playful / Light-hearted, so it was added to the list. These nuances emerged directly from my own lived experience of feeling into each state.
Through this process, the scale evolved to include 39 emotional setpoints—13 in each category (Expansive, Neutral, Contractive). Each emotion was carefully defined based on how it felt in relation to others, ensuring the scale provides a comprehensive and intuitive framework for emotional calibration. I also found that naming them expansive and contractive as well as high and low vibrations added more logic and understanding to the construct. These days I also add pure and diluted as another way of categorising and understanding them better.
Occasionally, I’ll listen to Abraham Hicks or watch reality TV shows for entertainment and insight into production dynamics (not sure why yet, but I trust the reason will reveal itself in time). Beyond that, I’m not swayed by what has come before—I continuously look toward the future and what’s possible. This “isolation,” as some might call it, wasn’t a deliberate choice; it simply felt right for me at the time, so I honoured it. I’m happy doing my thing, never feel lonely, and don’t consider myself flawed in any way. What others on the outside might think is irrelevant—it was important to me to honour my process, whatever that looked like.
Coming to this work has answered all my internal questions and finally made sense of so many things. If I were to share one piece of advice, it would be this: Honour your process too! Period.